Internal bleeding

I wanted to write about this couple of weeks ago.

 

When you have internal bleeding, you go to hospital, get inspection and take medication, then MC, rest at home, until it’s cured, probably not fully cured…

 

HOWEVER, for “periodic internal bleeding” that most women are suffering from, they DON’T entitle to get MC. WHY?

 

I am not trying to say how GREAT women are to hold the pain, and to work all day long as usual, and to tolerate the consequences of internal bleeding get “overflow”… I am just asking for EMPATHY… 😐

 

We shall have a coloured ribbon action to create public awareness, to appreciate your mom, your grandmother, your sister, your daughter, your aunt, your female friends, your female colleagues and the list go on. Calm them when they are anxious. Hold them when they need support. Let them rest when they are tired. Cook them red bean soup when they have the “internal bleeding”. And… the list goes on as well. 😀

 

If this is happening, how wonderful the world it will be?!

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Yes. Away I’ve been..

I know SaDu has been sounding the MIA alarm for a long time. Totally appreciate her effort in keeping this place somewhat alive (although not kicking). Two months have quickly gone by since the ladies went off for their holidays & business trips; leaving me still stranded pretty much at the same spot except that the mass has increased significantly. Now that everyone is back in the same place; one is down with MC for a month; another extremely bogged down with work till she has no time to even breathe or write; and me — I’ve been….everywhere.

 

I’ve started another ground for myself to breed my thoughts. Hence, I’ve been pretty much out of touch, out of sight. I guess I can only write this much and crap this lot. So, do pardon my sudden disappearance. Many things had happened in the short 2 months gap. Good & bad, happy & sad, contentment & disappointment; all in all, God continues to follow through each baby step faithfully. I’m still in good care of our Heavenly Father although I am in the midst of weakening and limping.

 

How’s your life been going? Good I hope. Or to the least, better? I know some of you have decided to take a break from a lot of things. One of you prolly starting to engage in your favorite past time and getting the adrenaline rush while working to flex those rusty muscles – well, good for you! & Best of luck too! One of you have specifically indicated that you’ll take a break from many things in your life – again, great for you. Being able to take a step back and just focus on the most basic need – to breathe & to love. I hope you’ll be back energized and totally yourself soon. One of you are prolly struggling with a lot of new changes and challenges while struggling to get back on a perceived normal life – be patient. Good things come to those who wait. Another one – I know you are struggling and going back & forth with your rationales; trying very hard to battle & reason with yourself on what is right and what is wrong. To move on or to quit. Just so you know, knowing when to quit makes you a winner and not a loser. Don’t hold on to something that even you yourself don’t believe in and definitely not hold on to something that even you cannot convince yourself that you can keep that commitment a constant. Because you can prolly lie to yourself today, but tomorrow or days down the road; you might just wake up and realize, “Crap! What turf am I doing?” By then, time would have passed on. And for those of you whom I have not specifically mentioned…it’s prolly because I have not been updated about you or I prolly don’t even know you’ve been reading. Either way, I truly hope you’ve seen greater days than I had. May you find the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. And if you happen to see CareBear..can you tell my LittlePony that it’s time to come home for dinner? Thank You.

 

It’s 28th Apr today. 2 more days to a brand new month and also the end of the 1st month of the 2nd quarter. I know i’m going no where in this statements. Whatever you are doing and wherever you are going; promise me you’ll pause – drop everything and just close your eyes – tilt your head backwards – take a deep breath – and give yourself a smile and a pat on your shoulder. That’s for a “Well done hawtty! You’ve gone another mile further. Praise the Lord”

 

 

Until the next time, remember to breathe and enjoy your heart beat.

 

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Pineapples…

Peeps, I’m sorry for being away for quite a bit.  I’ve recently started my little corner albeit not contributing much either; but that does kept me away from s33o for quite a bit.  Nevertheless, it’s down to a quiet weekend and since both Jup & SaDu are both away (again!), I shall just drop in a note and announce my presence. 

 

You know guys…is it just me or is it really MAXIS in generally that is completely crazy lately? Whenever I’m around my home area (or maybe some other places too), my phone will not be able to make/receive calls, send SMSes! It’s crazy i tell you.  I hate those 3 words Error in Connection! And messages keeps coming in hours later :(  Imagine if a Prince Charming ask me out and I missed it?! Crapso rite? *sigH*

 

Anyways, if you happen to have trouble reaching me, it means I’m stuck somewhere with this great MAXIS problem! And yet they have the balls to offer the iPhone package! crapso

 

Okla..by now you must be wondering what does pineapple have to do with MAXIS.. 😛 Actually…nothing! hahaha.. I just happen to be walloping a big fat plate of pineapples.  Hence, the title of the entry.  Speaking of which..I’m down to the last 4 pieces *gaaakk*… I sure hope my gastric doesn’t act up

 

I went by GP today to grab some Bobbi Brown stuffs for my mum.  Everything is so temptingly nice! 😀 I really wish I am loaded and can afford everything :(  Very unfortunately…I should just continue to use 2nd hand products 😛

 

Haiyo…okla.  I think I’ll stop here.  I think the pineapples are tumbling and rumbling inside my tummy 😀

 

Ciao ciao!

 

P/s: Spice & Rice close shop dy.. it’s not taken over by Straits Kitchen.  Perhaps we can go there? 😉

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Jup M.I.A?

I am kinda M.I.A for quite sometime in this blog. My bad.

 

I had a busy week last week, or since I got back here from hometown. Besides working, I have visited the CNY Cultural & Heritage Celebration 2009, hike to Light House, CNY visits, movie, facial, singles’ nite out, and bla bla bla… Then, CNY suddenly ended yesterday. Last night was my official first time working at a non-working hour in office!

 

My schedule keeps filled up. I am supposed to organize a trip to the Light House this quarter for my department; I doubt I will have time to do so.

 

I am busy like cow as well (not as busy like Baby I guess). It’s the year of cow, are we supposed to be busy then? (OK, I just don’t know why they want to have a fancy name, it’s year of ox.)

 

I’ll be having some travels (I think, I hope, I wish…) and yeah, I’m going to move to another place to stay in PG, within these few months. I hope all to be settled by end of April. That’s my target. What should I be looking forward after that? Gosh, I am too crazy to think that. I should plan for a slow pace life style, shouldn’t I?

 

Oh… and also to avoid myself to fall into the low performer group… I should plan something for myself, which is in favour of my managers. Sigh… why this society can’t accept people to have horizontal career path? I guess if you do not plan to move up, climbing up the ladder, you’ll be categorized as you are behind others. So, I am still trying to tune my direction to align with that. (Disagree but commit? :P) The most challenging part is, to make it into bullets in your focal! Frankly speaking, I HATE this. However, too bad, my family’s and my living depends on it.

 

They said, life goes on… so is mine…

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Our coffee bean outing!

I can’t remember exactly the whole outing, what every little thing we did, what every line we spoke, what every little movement the seconds hand on my watch witnessed, what… what am I talking about? Get to the point!

Well, that’s me.

We did a little discussion just now. Baby said it was me who started this outing. I was hungry… then I go to fetch SaDu, then Baby, then we headed to Gurney Plaza… Wait… Baby seemed confused. The story rewrites…

It was Baby who was hungry, and then we went out. The fetching part is still the same. She didn’t take her dinner!

We were discussed where we shall have Baby’s late dinner, and our supper! Dome? Breeks? Coffee Bean? Starbucks?

Oh! Just recall that SaDu and I am fans of Coffee Bean, and Baby is a fan of Starbuck. We had our first outing at Starbuck, so we are going to… Coffee Bean.

Oh My! I am enjoying distracting Baby and SaDu…. but… but… but… they keep telling me to shut up! 😦

OK, continue with my never ending story… 😀

I was a bit out of normal, or I am in my normal? I wear a very reddish top, and black jeans.

Maybe I should put in point form, coz my memory stored in random order…. So, is this meaning I have random access memory? Answer : YES! 😐

1. I keep on introduced them in the car of one very nice cake there with very long name, got double or triple, layer, chocolate in the name… aiks… I can’t remember it again… can’t find it in Coffee Bean website also lar…
2. Baby ordered something in bread for her dinner, she can’t recall now too.
3. I didn’t order the double/triple cake, but a muffin.
4. SaDu ordered mocha ice-blended with no whipped cream.
5. Baby can’t remember what she ordered, basically a cup of drink.
6. I ordered Genmaicha. (Hey! I remember! That’s the good way of remembering this, order the same thing each time! :D)
7. Got a weird weird guy sitting near us, Baby noticed him. He got gesi gesi pretend not looking at us.
8. I met with my fren there!
9. We agreed to have Christmas dinner before Christmas!
10. We took a lot of photos.
11. Oh o hoh… Baby had to make people believing she is wearing short pants (hot pants!)
12. OK.. no more.. Baby and SaDu can’t remember anything more… 😀

Yay yay! I finished my entry in our this very meeting!

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